Loving Yourself and Being True to You
Have you ever thought ‘I don’t like the way I am’?
If you have, you’re not alone.
Most of us doubt ourselves at times, and do not give ourselves the love and respect which we give others.
When you make that important decision to be true to yourself and love, value and respect yourself first, you will experience changes that will take place around you.
You will attract people who will in return love, value and respect you for who you really are and also people who are in their own journey similar to your journey, where they see the uniqueness within them and hence respect and value the uniqueness within you.
At the same time you will notice that certain people will move away from your life experiences. That is perfectly okay as per the Law of Attraction, ‘like attracts like’ and hence at times, if a certain person is not in the same vibrational energy as you are, its okay to wish them well, bless them and say good bye or let go. It’s the same with even your own habits. Its part of your transformation journey. You are an evolving being and contrasts brings change in your life due to the desires that come out of the contrasts. Therefore be willing to embrace the change and move on. At times you might have a quiet time in your life where people who surrounded you are no longer around you – that’s okay. Take it as your special time alone to get to know you better and get to know your desires and dreams and goals. Take every opportunity as a blessing.
When you have accepted to be comfortable to be by yourself as part of your growth journey, you will realise that you will attract new people to surround you – who are also likeminded and are in a similar journey in their life.
We are all living being emanating energy every minute, and what we emanate out is what we attracts into our life experiences and the people around us. If you take a moment and see the people and experiences that you are attracting into your life right now, you will know what kind of energy you are emanating into the world. Know that they are a reflection of the energy that you hold and hence attracting them. If you like the people and experiences that are around you, then you can continue to practice the habits that you already have (and may be even fine tune them for better) but if you are not liking what is surrounding you, then its time for you to be very honest with yourself and ask the important question and provide an honest answer about what kind of energy you are emanating and why? Don’t blame others or external circumstances for being part of your life experiences, be brave and honest to take responsibility to the energy that you emanate.
If you realise that the snapshot of your ‘now’ moment in your life, is not the best energy, people or circumstance that you want, don’t be harsh on yourself – now that you are aware that you can control it through your own energy within you, set an intention to start changing the habits that are not supporting you in your life’s journey. All of us have a purpose to fulfil on this earth and it is our responsibility to find that meaningful purpose and take inspired action each day to fulfil that purpose.
Every important change in our life is made within us at a split second of a moment.
Let this be your special moment where you decide to make that important commitment to yourself and make that change.
If you stop for a moment and ponder on an example – if you are going through a loss/sadness in your life, the solution to change is always present and available to you. The important question is when do you decide to make the change?
You have the power within to change it now or change is in 5 or 10 years time. The power is all within you, and it is not based on an external person or circumstances.
Once you make that important decision, then the right people and the right opportunities will surround you. We live in a very loving and caring Universe that supports and nurtures us and the biggest question is are we ready to trust the Universe and take that first important step. Once we make that decision, everything changes and we practice the habit of adding self confidence in our own actions and trust our own guidance system that is always available to you.
Once you have made a decision and the positive momentum takes place, anyone looking at you and the transformation taking place in your life, will think that you have magical powers .
I believe that you do have magical powers within you, and all you have to do is align yourself to it and take that first step trusting that everything is working out for you and that you will be guided to the next right step along the way. You don’t have to know all the steps re what to do right now – all you have to do is take the first step and the next steps to follow will present itself to you. Don’t doubt yourself, especially if you are being guided by your inner-being.
At times the craziest twist and turn will become your most important detours that guide you to where you really want to go – it has always been true in my life – when I ponder about those detours. Surely at that moment I didn’t like them and at times I even pushed back from them, but today pondering on my life’s journey I can say that the detours in my life, were the best things that happened to me. I won’t be the person I have grown to be today, without those detours. And this doesn’t stop right here. I always believe that we are all evolving being and our desires keep evolving too. Therefore as we take steps through our life’s journey, at time we can take a longer route or a detour, and its all okay. Don’t be too harsh on yourself for them. Smile and know it’s a learning and a valuable session for you to fine tune your desires.
One of the greatest change that happened within me with most of the detours I have had in my life is that, they all contributed to bring me to this place I am right now – i.e. to teach me not to blame anyone for anything (that make me go on a detour). I have learnt to take responsibility for my action and the energy I bring into any interactions or experiences in my life. At times I still do get annoyed and for a short moment I might even be tempted to blame the other – but thanks to my inner guidance I am learning to listen to it more often and take responsibility to the energy I create and therefore attract people and experiences into my life. It makes my life so much easier and helps me to get into the flow, (eliminating the negative energy I might build if I try to believe that someone else from the external world is the cause for my detours).
There is another big advantage in training yourself to take responsibility to the energy you create to attract any person or experience in your life. By doing so you know for sure that…. YOU DON’T HAVE TO GIVE YOUR POWER AWAY!! For me it was the biggest gift I gave myself, as previously I will feel helpless and sad thinking that someone external has the power to affect how I feel and either make me happy or miserable. Anyone can get caught into a depressed state of mind when they feel they don’t have the power within them, to change whatever that’s going on int heir life.
They do have the power and at times its simple as saying NO to something or someone and moving on keeping your integrity intact. Whether is be in the Corporate world or in your personal life this principal works the same way. You do have the power within you to change your life and make that important decision to improve your life and find your purpose. Don’t throw that chance away to anyone external in your life. Let your inner soul be your perfect guide, as it loves you and cares for you in an unconditional manner.
Wishing you life best to be the magnificent you!